Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban have maintained a successful relationship since 2006, with one key rule being no texting between them. 

Nicole initiated this agreement, preferring voice communication over text messages. Research shows that calling can foster a stronger connection between partners, but it may also lead to anxiety. 

“We just do voice to voice or skin to skin, as we always say. We talk all the time and we FaceTime, but we just don’t text because I feel like texting can be misrepresentative at times…I don’t want that between my lover and I,” she told Parade.

Ultimately, establishing communication rules that work for both partners is crucial for relationship longevity. Keith advises that every couple should figure out what works best for them, whether it involves texting or not.

Do you and your partner have communication rules? What works for you?